Of being critical and judgmental

Often in life, we are given choices to make. About things, about events, about people. The CRUCIAL one is always about PEOPLE. In making judgment about people, we can only make TWO mistakes. One, is in 'TRUSTING' them, the other, is in 'DISTRUSTING' them. In either choice, the consequences are ours to bear, good or bad. The most often overlooked fact is that, the lessons we could learn from making the mistakes of trusting people is that it can sharpen our 'instinct' to learn to distrust people in times of critical judgment. This is actually EXPERIENTIAL LEARNING. It shapes our 'CRITICAL' view, not develops our 'JUDGMENTAL' attitude. So, learn to trust your 'INSTINCT'. It may fail you for the first few times, but it gets better and sharper through experiences. No matter, what others say, deep down in your heart, you know you are not being judgmental, but critical.